House off the table

So it looks like the house is no longer on the table, which is ok.I had been having reservations about doing it right now, I continued through those reservations for two reasons. The first I really really really wanted and house and this is where buying a house fits into my "life plan", and the second, I wanted to prove the nay sayers wrong. But after a lot of discussion and a lot of trying we decided that its too much. We really need to focus on the wedding right now.